On Enjoying the Work of “Non-Friends”

MU/FuKn spontaneous jam at Crunchy Frog, 2011.We’d tour together the next year. Photo: Lyle Frailing

I think a lot about the relationship between art and artist. Do you have to respect everything about an artist’s life in order to enjoy her or his music? Or, can you appreciate music simply on the basis of enjoying what comes out of the speakers?

The latter accords with the formalist literary movement of New Criticism argued for the consideration of art as a self-contained work; all that matters is the work itself, rather than details of the artist’s life or his/her agenda, political or otherwise. “Meta,” in the sense of its self-referentiality.

It’s a tidy idea. Granted, I’m a bit of a hound for context, and my curiosity always has me wondering about artists’ personal lives. (This is less driven by a desire to turn gods into mortals, and more informed by my own plight as a creative person; in learning more about artists, I hope to find inspiration from their struggle, e.g., “Wow, so-‘n’-so managed to make that album while raising a toddler?”) From there, I can decide if that additional context enhances, is a non-factor to, or detracts from the work.

As is, I have a hard time finding art that moves me, particularly contemporarily, so when I do find it, I’m biased toward wanting to like it rather than depriving myself of a rare good score. Anyone can be critiqued to death. Anyone. It’s more interesting and far braver to champion someone/something than to tear down. Who deserves a statue in the middle of your city? Are you sure about that?

I’m spit-balling a bit, if only because I’m coming off two days without caffeine and some morning coffee reawakened my brain.

Art’s subjective, because the lenses we’ve cultivated are unique (hopefully, anyway). As someone who has willingly put himself out there—on stage, on recordings, on video, and in published works—at the risk of whatever criticism, for his entire adulthood, well, I have above-average sympathy for any people who put themselves out there in their own way, via whichever medium. The world—in terms of art and creativity, but also civilization itself(!)—is built upon ideas, and it takes a degree of guts to expose those ideas to daylight where they might be applauded, or end a person’s ability to show her/his face in public, or, perhaps worst of all, be ignored.

My inspiration for these thoughts comes as I once again cue up the 2026 song “Bad Actor” by Sir Gregory FK. I hate to say it, but Greg “GD” Mills is not only an ex-bandmate of mine—from my beloved-if-brief time as touring bassist for his Minneapolis-based band, Fuck Knights—but also an ex-friend. I hesitate to equate that to “current foe” or enemy, but whatever we are/aren’t, it was his choice, not mine, and I disagree with it. Disappointing, to say the least. Haven’t heard from him in over a decade, and likely never will. 

When I ran into an old mutual friend this year, I wondered if Greg had still been making music, because from what I’d heard he was never able to shake the pesky rock’n’roll possession any more than I could.

What I found was a song/groove that has now been in my head for weeks. When something improves my life like this, I can’t help but share it—maybe it’ll do the same for others who happen to need a boost more than I do.

So here it is. Despite my having sadly personal reasons to not like this song, I find it undeniably good. Song of the year for me so far.

Now, is that big of me? Or is it weak and unprincipled?

Enjoy, and/or judge away:

-Matty

Bonus throwback footage—personally, possibly un-dethrone-able—from the Muddy Udders/Fuck Knights tour:

FukN Family Tree

A Belated Rock’n’Roll X-mas Miracle

Cannot believe this happened.

Gang, I’ve got a wild music tale to tell from winter. It starts with my seven-year-old son’s heartbreak, but leads to one of the coolest surprises—the kind of encouragement that could fuel him for the rest of his life.

Part 1

Two years after my daughter and I had a totally heartwarming experience in Dec. ‘23—which saw us go from sadly having no tickets to see JD McPherson’s “Socks” tour, to my desperation for tix leading to a near scam, to magically getting front-row seats—my wife was set to take our boy to see JD this past December in Madison. He was surprised with the tickets as a St. Nick present—kid *loves* this record—and was so pumped he’d get a chance to go!

The big day finally came, and the mom-and-son duo headed off on the 2.5-hour drive to the concert. Since it was general admission, they got there a bit early to stand in line in the cold to get spots at the front of the stage. They managed to hang onto that bit of floor space through the opening act and all the way up to JD’s set (which involved my brave boy working his way through the crowd [and back] by himself to go to the bathroom).

The kid, front row at the concert he was out-of-his-mind excited for.

Then, when someone came on to make an announcement—presumably, “Ladies and gentlemen: JD McPherson!!!”—the announcement was, unbelievably, that everyone needed to evacuate the venue, due to flooding in the basement. Wow… all that planning, early departure, and staking out a spot up front had been for nothing; all attendees were kicked out onto the sidewalk to await an update in the cold.

It came 10 minutes later: the show was off. “Check your emails for further information.” (A full refund was soon issued, but that’s so beside the point.)

Absolute, gut-wrenching shock. Weeks of anticipation—all the way to the front row, at the very moment he was supposed to see his favorite singer—dashed.

I guess the lil guy took it okay, outwardly anyway. My wife found some restaurant to get him a consolatory piece of pie, but come on: how do you actually cheer up a 2.5-hour drive home through the middle of the night/winter/nowhere. He’d fallen sweetly asleep for the last leg of the trip, and when they pulled in the garage and I carried him in and up to bed.

Part 2

I’ve zero idea what to tell my son; it was as if the JD McPherson miracle his sister had experienced was completely inverted for him. What good could possibly come from this? What lesson? I was at a total loss beyond the equivalent of “Hey, sorry this sucked, but at least everything doesn’t always suck.”

Incredibly, the boy kept listening to “Socks” every day; my fears of a thenceforth dreadful association were unfounded.

After Xmas I was still cosmically bothered on my son’s behalf. How could I possibly turn this around?

Meanwhile, I personally had a very, very cool thing happen: my man Cory Chisel asked me to be part of a small choir of background singers for Fountains of Wayne’s New Year’s Eve concert at The Vic in Chicago. Kidding me? I’d been an FoW fan since my good pal Chris Wong put “Sink to the Bottom” on a mix CD for me in high school. Way too wild!

I get to the venue for soundcheck. Turns out the choir is Cory, me, & this hip couple from Chicago, John and Dani—nice people, but pretty much just got introduced before jumping into vocal rehearsals with Chris Collingwood and Gina Romantini. Absolutely righteous experience.

The Choir, L-R: Cory, moi, John, Dani

We broke away back to the hotel for a spell and got some food/drinks there. I end up sitting next to John, and he asks me what other kind of music stuff I do, and we’re just off to the races: turns out we have all these similar tastes for the good rock’n’roll, and have a pretty wild number of mutual friends. From first meeting until this way-too-fun chat, it’s been about two hours. Only at this point does he mention, casually as all get-out, that he is the touring drummer for one JONATHAN DAVID MCPHERSON. And Yes, he was at the ill-fated Madison gig, Yes he remembers the unceremonious cancellation, Yes he and the band were totally bummed.

My mind is absolutely blown—all the more so when he tells me to get him my address so he can mail up something cool for my son. How in the… was there actually gonna be a cool ending to this “Socks” debacle after all?

Part 3

NYE with Fountains of Wayne was maybe the most fun gig I’ve ever gotten to be part of—just unreal! We got to do a 2nd vocal rehearsal with Chris and Gina beforehand. I got to meet Max Collins from Eve6, who plays bass for FoW since Adam Schlesinger tragically passed. Talk about big shoes to fill. Backstage after the show, I absurdly had the chance to literally fill Max’s shoes, as he had me try them on to show me how comfortable they were, ha!

On stage with the choir, with Gina and Chris in the foreground.

It was nuts. A big group with everyone tried to go to another bar by the hotel afterward, but everywhere was jam-packed being NYE.

I did get to see Chris and Max the following weekend at Joey’s Song, but I’ll save that for another ridiculously delayed post.

I managed to hang with Ian Olvera in Milwaukee on my way back home to GB—turns out he was the lynchpin for how Cory got in touch with John. For how wrong it felt when my son missed that JD McPherson show, the universe suddenly felt wonderful. I was maximally excited for my son. My wife and I somehow managed to keep it secret.

At most I thought maybe John would write a letter to my boy, who’s been taking drum lessons for almost 3 years; John said when he was younger, other drummers were cool to him and wrote him letters.

But John did way, Way more. He also sent a handful of classic 45s: Chuck Berry, Jerry Lee Lewis, Clarence Henry, Gene Vincent and the like.

He also included one of his signature drumsticks that he’d used on the “Socks” tour.

The crazy centerpiece, though, was the bass drum head from his tour for JD’s “Nite Owls” record—are you kidding me?? John signed it, and even had his musical compatriot, the insanely talented Alex Hall, sign it, too.

Found a photo from the “Nite Olws” tour.

Madness! Utter madness, this whole chain. Damn near life-affirming. John Perrin, you are an absolute LEGEND. My son sent his thank-you card not long after, but this gratitude’s eternal.

Cheers to John and to Dani—so glad to have met you both, that you’ve got each other and you’ve made it real matriomonial-like now!

Thanks for reading, gang; hope it brightened your day.

-Matty

Solo Show: Saturday, Feb 28 in GB

The typical 7-step process of when someone sweetly asks if I’ll do a solo gig:

1. ‘Sure! Thanks, even!’

2. (Exist)

3. Week of gig: ‘Right… that gig is this week.’

4. 3 days before gig: ‘What am I gonna play? …Nah, dude, not that—do something not-lame.’

5. 2 days before gig: Come up with bodacious setlist. Try practicing it, but mostly it was comically only possible on paper. Mostly.

6. Day before gig: Largely settle on setlist, then spend day trying to memorize lyrics to bunch of songs I’ve never performed, while doing something considerably beyond me i.e. playing harmonica.

7. Day of gig: Continue trying to memorize stuff, swap a song last minute, forget I’ve forgotten to account for not having a stitch to wear/figuring out if my gear is at all ready/commute/setting up. Set concludes, and I recall concept of oxygen, consider merits of ‘phoning it in’ next time, and invariably repeat.

While I’m eternally incapable of adequate preparation, I’m genuinely pumped for this one tomorrow at Green Bay UFO Museum Gift Shop and Records! Leaning into solo act liberties, I’ll be playing some MUDDY UDDERS, The Priggs, and solo tunes I’ve never performed solo or (in some cases) live at all, some covers I’ve never tried to play, and even a brand-new, recorded-but-yet-to-be-released Matty Day original.

And hot damn, a huge reason why I wanted to do this show was so I could open for Lightning Factory, who I’ve maddeningly never gotten to see before. Yes, on the same night as 6 planets align in the sky, for the first time, I will align with the 5 members of this righteous GB act.

Do hope you can make it! No cover, but pop a few pence in the pail if you please. Your man’s on at 7:20. All ages, but feel free to BYOB.

-M’att Ittaggen

[Very Late] Review: “Dorkwave” by Smart Shoppers

Hi, Matty here. I wrote this review three years ago, and I have absolutely no idea why I didn’t publish it right then. I was reviewing an album that was already a year old at the time! In compiling my soon-to-be-published review of new music I bought in 2025—once again, to be published from the cutting edge of punctuality—I recalled I’d put some thoughts down re: the Shoppers. Well, here be-ith them thoughts—sturdy ones, at that, as I actually haven’t changed a word of it.

Green Bay’s outstanding Smart Shoppers dropped album #2 recently, and snapped me from my Smart Shoppers-less stupor: though it was released in 2021, I still needed their debut, “Dorkwave”. Said disc was thusly acquired (by me, transactionally) and spun many a spin.

Smart Shoppers, shown mere moments before I bought their CD!

Review: It’s good. They’re good! Chock fulla repeated hits to my anti-capitalist solar plexus in the “mindless consumerism = ridiculous doom” sense. The plastic-machine-music of ex-Invitamins Aaron Smart and Jash Thraft + Boris the Sprinkler frontman/Earth’s Greatest Rocker Norby Shopko leaves terminally-over-advertised-at vocalist Joey Shops delirious, disaffected, and oddly determined, reeling off syllables like overstocked inventory, staggering through endless aisles of dreadfully stale deals.

Rev. Norb: Apparently Quite Good at Bass

Catchy existentialism ensues. But oh, the irony—can I tell people to buy this? Am I no better than the drooling Amazon addicts the Shoppers scorn? Have I learned nothing?! Well, mostly I’ve learned fresh possibilities for social commentary via music, and that—as of this crop of tunes—there is no greater opening song line than that of “Scratch and Dent“.

I also learned they aren’t just a rad live band, though they sure are:

Joey Shops, formerly of Last Sons of Krypton, recorded the album at his Lucky Lamb Studios, adding neat lil’ sound FX and clips throughout.

Pictured center: Keytarist/Recordist Joey Shops

The group’s new album is called “Leftovers for Tomorrow” and the question is not whether you can afford to buy it, rather, can you afford not to?

-Matty